Relationship SECRETS

ANNIVERSARIES : Always celebrate! Whether it's the 1st or the 50th, each year together is a triumph.

APPRECIATION : Let each other know how much you appreciate each other. You may already know but hearing it from each other is always better.

BEST FRIENDS : Be best friends preferably before being boyfriend-girlfriend. Take time to know each other so the relationship will be a deep one. Tell each other about your crushes, dreams and problems. Make sure he/she is your best friend before getting engaged. The strong bond of friendship will help you both survive tough times.

BOND : Make it a point to spend time together often but leave room for each other. Also spend time alone w/ each other, so that at the end of the day you could both share your experiences. This way, you stay interesting with your partner.

CHANGING EACH OTHER : Don't marry an as...le, j.... or a bi.... (an unsuitable person) You'll never change each other.

COMPLIMENTS : Always compliment each other. This will prevent feelings of resentment & thinking that one is being taken for granted.

DATE: Keep doings things that you both enjoy, do them together. Make time & continue to date to keep the romance - look good, smell good to maintain physical attraction

DIFFERENCES : Celebrate differences. Never force your ideologies down each other's throat. Give up trying to turn your partner into you. Accept differences, appreciate them.

FIGHTS : Fight with the aim to resolve the issue. Don't outdo each other. The longer you extend the fight. The more chances that you'll say something hurtful that you don't really mean. As mad as you were w/ your partner, he/she is still the person who laughs at your jokes & thinks you're hot. Hear each other out, don't dig up old issues. Choose your battles. Make sure the fight will be worth it & that something will change in the relationship as a result of the fight.

FLAWS : Know that the perfect person does not exist. Know that just as there are things that you love about him/her, there will be things that will make you go crazy. We are only human with our own flaws.

FUN : Have fun together! This means keeping the fun & spontaneity that was there in the early days. Allow yourselves to get silly - shower together, pee w/the door open etc. Being able to make each other laugh & see the lighter, crazier, absurd side is the best way to get through all the differences in personalities, adjustments in lifestyle & opposing viewpoints.

GOALS : Make sure you have similar goals. It would be difficult to keep your bond intact if your views are complete opposite.

GRUDGES : Quit tabulating grudges. Let it off. Discuss it, then trash it, don't recycle it.

KEEPING IT HOT : Keep it hot by traveling to diff. places together. A new setting will do wonders. Always have skin contact - be it holding hands, a massage or just plain leg rubbing.

HONESTY : Don't lie or hide things. The problem will only get bigger.

KNOW EACH OTHER : Learn each other's interest. It really keeps the conversation flowing!

HUG : A hug can be far better more intimate than a kiss.

IDENTITY : Don't lose your personality - that's why he/she fell in love with you. Have separate interest & activities to keep your individual, & to be able to contribute more to the relationship.

INDEPENDENCE : Having your own income means you're the boss in your life.

IN-LAWS : Make rooms for the in-laws.

INTENTIONS : Wish each other well. Don't wish each other worst.

ISSUESS : peak up about the awkward stuff now, like money & sex. The earlier, the better.

LISTEN : Listen, listen, listen. Hear each other out especially during arguments.

LOOK GOOD : Mind your appearance! Stay fit & healthy for each other.

LOVE : It all boils down to your love, chemistry & respect for each other.

MEMORIES : Remind each other of the old days. Do something that you used to do for each other before. It may even be corny but it made you two together. Experience new things together- from dining into a new restaurant to experiencing street food together to exploring to new places. It's the little surprises that make great memories.

MIND READING : No matter how long you've been together, do not think that you can read each other's mind.

NEEDS : Be good to yourself,then be good to your partner. That's what love is all about. Think about your partner. Will it make him/her happy?
Will she/he enjoy it? Consider each other's feelings. Be very attentive & sensitive to each other's needs, physically & emotionally, that way your partner learns to do the same for you. Never take your partner for granted.

PRIORITIES : If one says it's important, then it is! Prioritize each other among other things!

SPACE : Give each other space. Have dates with your girlfriends, have your boy's night out. If you can't trust each other with this, then don't get married.

SORRY : Say sorry when you're wrong.

SURPRISES : No matter how long you've known each other, be open to surprises, both good or bad.

TEAMWORK : Think for two & always work as a team. Consult each other before making a decision because everything will always affect both of you. Strengthen couple power. In many ways, we have to decide based on what is best for the relationship in favor of our individual selves.

SUPPORT : Support each other's dream. Be willing to follow your passions, support your partner in his/her decisions & create new ones together.
Two heads are better than one.

TALK : Tell each other's stories. Life goes by so fast & its easy to see how easily couple can grow apart. Whenever something funny, scary, exciting or juicy happened to you or to someone you know, tell each other about it & have your partner do the same. Keep each other in the loop of life, even by email if you have to.

4 Basic Things For A True And Ever Lasting Relationship

These four ingredients can be used in every sort of relationship. If you want them to be long lasting..

They are as follows...


1) Trust

You have to trust the person with whom u want to have relationship

2) Respect
You should respect each other.

3) Compromise
The two of you must compromise in different matters.

4) Patience
The important one..both of you should remain patient and take decisions after a deep thinking on every matter.

Difference between "Somebody You Love" & "Somebody You Like"

1 - In front of the person you love, your heart beats faster, But
in front of the person you like, you get happy.

2 - in front of the person you love, winter seems like spring. But
in front of the person you like, winter is just beautiful winter.

3 - If you look into the eyes of the one you love, you blush. But
if you look into the eyes of the one you like, you smile.

4 - In front of the person you love, you can't say everything on your mind. But
in front of the person you like, you can.

5 - In front of the person you love, you tend to get shy. But
in front of the person you like, you can show your own self.

6 - You can't look straight into the eyes of the one you love. But
you can always smile into the eyes of the one you like.

7 - When the one you love is crying, you cry with them. But
when the one you like is crying, you end up comforting.

8 - The feeling of love starts from the eye But
the feeling of like starts from the ear.

So if you stop liking a person you used to like, all you need to do is cover your ears. But
if you try to close your eyes, love turns into a drop of tear and remains in your heart forever...

• Nothing is impossible to the willing heart.
  --Thomas Heywood
  
  
• I'd rather have roses on my table than diamonds around my neck.
  --Emma Goldman
  
  
• To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others.
  --François Mauriac
  
• My affection hath an unknown bottom, like the bay of Portugal.
  --William Shakespeare
  
  
• Every time we love, every time we give, it's Christmas.
  --Dale Evans
  
• A single rose can be my garden...a single friend, my world.
  --Leo Buscaglia
  
  
• Loyalty is one of the most valuable traits of a true friend.
  - Unknown

Positive Quotes for Love and Relationship

When I learn something new - and it happens every day
- I feel a little more at home in this universe, a
little more comfortable in the nest.
--Bill Moyers
The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical
substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.
--Carl Jung

Fear makes strangers of people who would be friends.
--Shirley MacLaine

Love does not dominate; it cultivates.
--Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
The walls we build around us to keep
sadness out also keeps out the joy.
--Jim Rohn

Best Relationship Quotes

The best relationship is the one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.

- Unknown

When there is the thought to do something altruistic for someone every day, there is the ability to give happiness unconditionally. Whatever the relationship or whatever the personality of the other person, the one who develops the habit of doing this, is able to remain a source of support for those around. The best gift we can give is to give happiness and to finish sorrow. When we are constantly thinking of this, not for any reward but just for the sake of it, we are able to discover and enjoy the fruit of that action. We are free from expectations and are able to enjoy the action itself.

- Brahma Kumaris, Mt.Abu

“You can't stop loving or wanting to love because when its right, it's the best thing in the world. When you're in a relationship and it's good, even if nothing else in your life is right, you feel like your whole world is complete.”

- Keith Sweat 

Relationships are like crystals, you don't realize how much you love it until it breaks.

- Unknown

The specialty of the ocean is to merge. The most beautiful pearl is made of the dirt that is thrown into the ocean.  So also the power to merge actually allows one to look at the positivity in spite of the obvious negativity that is expressed by the other person. So the relationship with the other person is only with their positivity. When we are able to merge the negativity of others, and look at the positive aspect in them instead, we can automatically experience being light and positive within.  Also we find others relating to us with their positivity. We are able to be successful in our relationship with others, however difficult the personality traits of the other person may be.

- Brahma Kumaris, Mt.Abu